I can that look ,can say completely expressionless ,he was very humble disease destroyed .Si Zhanjie later learned ,this named Li optical in the elderly ,young when infected with leprosy, recovered after leaving forced segregation leprosy village ,but because the villagers discrimination but not home .
Over the past 30 years, his long absence from home alone ,a person cultivation in a piece of corn .Si Zhanjie began to contact a village and prestigious village ,over and over again, explain the leprosy rehabilitation are not contagious .
He also lived in Lee optical son home, near to the mobilization of persuasion .However ,the most effective or make oneself an example .He is often associated with Lee optical village together ,laughing and talking with the elderly in arm hook back .
A year later, the old man finally get back home village .In order to strive for to understand ,Si Zhanjie regularly to call home ,his help as Lee optical such leprosy rehabilitation of persons with story to parents .
In 2006, he even took mother brought in leprosy village ,let her see his work .Practice of parents also gradually began to take care of these afflicted, and son on the phone often asked rehabilitation status .
They blame for his son ,but does not stop . Not only are my parents ,the whole family is a big blow .Si Zhanjie gradually understand ,his original relationship to the whole family .The village ,often implying ,the nephew not to be an influential officials have the Spring Festival ,when a car wind scene light back ,which makes division home lose face ,someone even said he incompetence .
Mother know ,relatives feel can touch the boss takes kit light .He always takes his son outside ,my son is not officer material ,he is very honest, not to lie .Back home ,she couldn worrying about him :you are more than 30, no house ,no car ,no wife ,or pauper a ,how is it made ? It would be some ,at least for now ,I have to eat .
Si Zhanjie is always happy to answer .My parents had nothing to do with him, only a sigh :pull back to him !Si Zhanjie believes that :people will have to leave their parents ,psychological realization of independent .
I don get out of control ,but I still love you until shortly before Tian Xingcai choice ,independent of their parents .In love this thing, she tried to send a signal to his parents -- a firm attitude ,is not the same as before .
The signal begins with a simple refuse .Although from her own rent the house to go to work to spend the last hour ,Tian Xing or his Ninja ,did not move to his parents in her office to rent house .
Can visit our parents every weekend ,listening to their constant expression disappointed and sad ,Tian Xing was still in pain . I am afraid of letting them down ,they will seize this point ,constantly talked .
The only daughter, parents carefully cultivated .When she was lying in a crib ,mother uses a red rope, connected with her hand and hung on the bed frame of small toys .As long as a small flash, she will pay attention to be riotous with colour .
She was afraid that I spent the day looking white ceiling ,become stupid .She started primary school ,mother love took her to climb mountains ,go to catch a butterfly ,to recognize the plant ,buy electronics china,cultivate various daughter interest .
There are times ,Guiyang suddenly heavy snowfall ,at school, in the working parents appear together at the school gate . ,we see snow ,or snow melt in the afternoon !A family of three to play in the snow scene ,Tian Xing remembered .
Then ,the care and attention gradually become a burden .Tian Xing remembered about the third grade primary school ,the mother began to inquire about her teacher in class .Even though school and not student performance ranking ,but she was afraid to let mother down ,or constantly ask themselves ,next time you want to do better !On the University ,the parents still urges her to study hard .
Freshman year, she aspired to be a tutor, independent money ,parents objects stoutly . Learning is the most important ,your pocket money ,we can send you !The mother phoned to say .Tian Xing eventually give heart to heart ,but always .
She seldom ask their parents to open his own inner world .Received the admission notice, in the side of a careful study of the parents ,she was just happy 5 minutes ,immediately plunged into be rather baffling loss .
Many years later ,when she was sitting in the Beijing China World Trade Center has a large French window in the office building ,only then understood, the vanity of human life ,not through the achievement can be filled .
Study in the United States ,she became more and more conflicted professional school, is in the north part of reliving the kindness club into a passion ,for poor children to provide free education service agency practice .
Really ,it spontaneous motility .Now she is slowly stresses .For all this ,his parents know little about .They just feel ,daughter farther and farther back .A father to her nagging living things, Tian Xing impatiently retorted :don care of me .
The night you walking back ,the mother had said to her daughter :your dad just cried ,you talk to him like that .7 month, parents once again call out of the blue, notify the daughter they had sat back to Guiyang train .
This made Tian Xing into a tangle ,I will tear !A Tian Xing said :I let my parents down ,how do ah ?My life is so failed !Another Tian Xing said :I really want to go my own way ,I so big ,his ideas need to be realized ,I can no longer be parents hold in my hand .
With almost equal to the parents all the savings money abroad ,Tian Xing was thinking back among the treatment attractive investment bank ,to repay the parents .But she gradually discovered that ,with his own life to meet the parents ,never seems to satisfy .
I can only say to them ,I am not your control ,but I still love you .Other people live a step ahead step by step ahead ,I will fall again behind Tian Xing know ,follow the heart to choose life ,resistance is not only from their parents .
Work in the accounting firm ,she fell in love with the goal of life and the meaning of life book .In the book, she read a Harvard Business School professor to the graduating class of students speech: really do the things they like ,it graduated 5 anniversary reunion, you don ,because then you probably in the most difficult moments ,and your classmates ,most of them are large companies entered the elite .
Similarly, the 10 anniversary party ,you don .However ,20 years after the reunion, you can go ,you will see ,those who adhere to dream, and those who swim ,will have different life what .
Tian Xing was a period of extraordinary advice deeply moved . But for 20 years ,you have to do to choose how much ah ?Back to reality ,she still regularly attended the reunion, listening to people say you say me to discuss the who who who moved to where .
who who who got promoted .In this meeting, she received a sense of security -- at least I can do better than others .In Si Zhanjie ,classmate gathering is another picture .He graduated from the University for almost 10 years ,make a friend ,now most are married ,have a typical middle class life, have two friends near the Premium Apartment House in Dianchi ,purchased the property .
While Si Zhanjie continued in Kunming rent a house ,riding an old bicycle .Just graduated at that time ,differences that emerged .Si Zhanjie was the monthly wage of 800 yuan ,his birthday about classmates ,everybody does not let him pay .
What international organization ,is the international beggar ?Brother often make fun of ,china wholesalers electronics,he will not lay it to heart .University roommate Niu Zhengyong remember ,Si Zhanjie was their spiritual leader .
They often went to the Si Zhanjie rented house, playing on the floor on a talk ,all career troubles ,Si Zhanjie said that he met with various underlying story in the countryside .Soon ,the party in the form of a change .
Niu Zhengyong graduate school and became a civil servant .Another roommate in bank system rapidly go up in the world ,has now become a branch of the vice president .Students meeting place ,gradually shifted to the senior hotel and KTV .
Eat more ,we habitually a round of toast toast . Students more and more polite one, they have acquired ,that is natural ,I became increasingly uneasy .Si Zhanjie miss the past a group of young men crowded in the dorm ,cooked a bowl of noodles ,around the television to watch CCTV science day .
Other people live, one step ahead ,step by step ahead is .Si Zhanjie some self-deprecating smile ,I will lag behind again .The party class is higher and higher ,he can ,was not used to make others pay, was often absent classmates party .
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